Disappointed

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Tomorrow is the deadline to get your entries in for the Go Sleeveless transformation competition.  Well over 100 women said they wanted to enter, and so far I have only received four entries.  FOUR!

To say I am greatly disappointed is an understatement.

This is exactly the reason so many people are unhappy with the way they look and feel.  They simply will not take action.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions, and this is a glaring example of that old, but startlingly true cliche.

When I asked if anyone wanted me to hold this competition, I was inundated with emails and comments on this blog to say…

“Please do Rylan!  I desperately want to change!”

The minute I ask anyone to step up and actually do the work to enter…

NOTHING!

What gives people??

It doesn’t cost anything; there is no entrance fee, and you aren’t required to buy any of my programs. All you have to do is send me your before photo and your measurements and say ‘I’m In!” and I’ll help you with the rest.

Is that too much to ask?

Here I am, going out of pocket to offer great prizes,  giving up a whole lot of my free time, and giving you time that I’m taking away from my family (of which is extremely limited to begin with) to offer free coaching and guidance to help you reach your goals.

And for what?

For you to shrug it off and to sit by idly and say, “I’m not ready yet, I’ll do it later when I have time.”

Look, you can find every conceivable excuse in the book to justify why you can’t get in shape…  “It’s my metabolism, it’s my thyroid, it’s my job, it’s my family, I can’t afford it etc, etc, etc”.

Bullshit. (I rarely use language this strong here, so you know I’m serious)

The only reason you don’t have the body of your dreams now is because you haven’t taken responsibility for yourself.

You’ve put EVERYTHING ahead of getting in shape, and now you are reaping the rewards of this behavior.

Look, I was once in the exact same position as you are in now.

I remember when I put more importance on watching the latest episode of my favorite sitcom than going for a walk.

I remember when having a few beers and wings with the guys was time better spent than getting a workout in.

I also remember waking up every single day and being disgusted with myself.  I remember getting dressed and looking at myself in the mirror and feeling sorry for myself and despising my very existence.

And who’s fault was that?

My own.

I know you have priorities, but tell me this… How good are you going to be to your family when you have heart disease and need them to take care of you?

How happy are your children and grandchildren going to be when you can’t play with them because you are too out of shape to keep up with them?

How likely is it that your boss is going to let you keep your job when your sick days start outnumbering your work days?

If you keep putting everything else before your health, these are very likely outcomes.  It’s not just about looking better, its about being healthier, more vital, having more energy, and enjoying life.

When you are in great shape, you will be happier, more productive, and every single aspect of your life will improve, that is my PROMISE to you.

And remember, we’re not talking about a big time commitment here either.  The workouts I’ve recommended and included in the Go Sleeveless system will take you less than half an hour for both the strength training and the cardio together.

Can you honestly say you can’t squeeze out an extra 30 minutes during your weekdays?

Seriously, you spend twice as much time just watching COMMERCIALS each week than you actually will need to spend exercising.

Ok folks, thats enough of my rant.

Please understand that I’m not trying to be mean and point the finger or single anyone out here.

It’s my job as your coach to give you to the tools to succeed.  It’s also my job to motivate you, hold you accountable, and give you a swift kick in the ass from time to time.

What I want more than anything is to see you succeed, because I know how much your life will change for the better when you do.

I want to help you, but you need to help yourself first.

You can do this, I KNOW you can, but you have to take action.

So enough excuses.  Stop what you are doing right now, and go enter the competition.  I’ll even let you keep your before photos private.  Just make a commitment to yourself to change your life.

Make me proud.

Coach Rylan